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Consequences of pride in a marriage could be irreversible.
If someone claims to have a perfect marriage, you can be certain that he or she is a liar.
Couples fight, and they fight badly, but it is the ability to change one’s position, communicate with respect, and be honest with one another that determines the survival of any marital relationship. If you remove pride and arrogance from your marriage, it is already 90% promising, stable, and peaceful, and can thus withstand the test of time.
Invest in your marriage by giving, talking, and compromising on occasion. As a stakeholder, your concern should be how to make your home peaceful and stable for the enjoyment of you, your spouse, and your children.
Stop running to third parties who are likely hiding and managing their own problems. You may receive nothing positive or helpful from such friends, family members, church/mosque members, and colleagues to whom you are exposing or trading what should be your home’s secrets.
A broken home is comparable to a war. Nobody escapes unscathed. Each party leaves with an injury that will plague them for the rest of their lives. That is the truth. Whoever claims to be unaffected/uninjured is a chronic liar, a chronic pretender, and an unrepentant soul, which means he/she is stone-hearted.
Such a person has no concept of what constitutes a good home. He or she is unaware of the positive impact that an unbroken relationship has on the home, the community, the church/mosque congregation, and society at large. There is no amount of success in life that can compensate for failure at home.
Make certain that your house is not dispersed. Repair it right away before it’s too late. If your home is currently experiencing separation, ensure that you let go of your pride and compromise to prevent it from becoming a broken home.
Stop narrating your domestic affairs to gain sympathy. Most of the people you’ve told your story to and who are supporting you are at home, keeping their homes intact and sympathizing with you, while you’re already out of your own home. To be honest, what you will be treated to outside your home will not be what you expected. Consider this and then return. God bless you and keep you.
We all manage each other in marriages; there is no perfect marriage, and couples must continue to manage each other until death. If you want your marriage to last, manage your spouse; there is no such thing as a perfect marriage.
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